1st Day: Intimacy can heal anything

Okie, 1 day has passed. Embarking on my new task/project, I started on the 1st exercise based on the quote: Intimacy can heal anything.
Before any of you guys think otherwise, intimacy in POV language is more of opening up and approaching ur partner with open arms. Moving forward and toward your partner will lead you to a "joining" which will result in a synergy and postive engery on the relationship.

Many a times, we will feel tired, bored, deadness, fear and sense of unworthiness in a relationship (can be any forms of relationships, friendship, kinship etc), so Chuck suggested that when we truly move toward our partner the answer to these problems will come. There is a new level of connectedness, which will heal anything. Note: Moving toward our partner does not mean giving in to the him/her nor compromising on our own values. It is simply moving toward them in love.

Exercise: I must imagine what are the problems I faced with my idenitified partner and with that clearly in mind, I will then have to imagine moving toward them. Passing all problems and moving closer to them... and at the point of joining, I would have moved past the problems and everything that is hindering the relationship from moving forward.

This can be applied to any forms of relationship, in fact I tried it on a friend whom I believe I told u all in the earlier post that I seemed to have lost... I called out to her today and gave her a hug, at the brief moment, I "poured" my love for her and tell her that I love her and she's a very dear friend of mine. I dunno if she felt anything, but I sure do feel happier after the hug. I felt that I've tried and I know that she may have felt something. I dun expect immediate reaction frm her, but I believe that by "loving" her in my own manner, she will feel it one day. And by "loving" someone unconditionally, I would be able to live a happier life as I do not have expectations and thus no disappointments.

Other than her, of coz I tried on my own partner, i.e. my darling. I felt that I need to get past the problems of trust and lack of self-worth (on my end) and today of all days, I was "thrown" many tests, with the pressure from work, I got irritated by him and I start having nana thoughts. But I steered myself back and told myself that I need to get past these problems and move toward him truly and sure enough, the feeling of distrust dissipiated. I know this may be a baby step I've made today, but I'm glad I made this baby step, coz I am 1 baby step closer to him. =)

Okie, tomorrow's exercise will be: "Any behaviour that is not love is a call for love"

(have a strong feeling this is to do with family....)

Okie peeps, gonna slp soon as I have a long day tomorrow. Nitey everyone and love u guys. *muacks*